How we got here.

Hmm. How far back should I go?

I could start at the beginning… Once upon a time, there was a 21-year-old girl who loved school in general – and organic chemistry in particular – so much that she left her college boyfriend to move out to the east coast to go to graduate school. She didn’t worry about having kids yet. After all, she was only 21 years old, and would have plenty of time once her career was on track…

Hmm. Maybe that’s too early to start. How about when we started trying to get pregnant… After getting married last January, and recognizing that we wanted more than one kid and that we weren’t getting any younger, we started trying to get pregnant in early March. In month 1, this just meant ‘pulling the goalie’ and going for it. The next month we tried to time it starting around day 10 and continuing for about a week straight. The third month, a friend gave me her copy of ‘Taking Charge of Your Fertility’ by Toni Weschler. I read it in a couple days and figured out what we were actually supposed to be doing… We got pregnant that month, in my first attempt at charting.

Everything was great. We went on our perfect little honeymoon to Ireland (which we had put off due to my work schedule), where I restricted myself to the hard Irish cheeses, and only the tiniest sips of Guinness and Irish whisky. We came back and went to our 8 week appointment the next week, only to see that there was no heartbeat. The baby had stopped growing at 5 1/2 weeks…

But we were okay. We had gotten pregnant once. We knew that I was ovulating, that nothing was blocked, that his swimmers could swim,… Fast forward to December. By that point, we had had several cycles in which we timed things perfectly and no pregnancy. By this point, I’d read enough books about infertility to know not to put off seeing a specialist. So we made an appointment in January with the Kaiser Reproductive Endocrinologist.

And what now? After the standard tests, we know that C. is superman. (The nurse literally said his sperm test results were the ‘best she had ever seen’.) And at the ripe old age of 34, I apparently have the ovaries of a 45-year-old woman…

So we’re moving ahead with medicated intrauterine insemination (IUI, aka ‘the turkey baster’) next month, and probably in-vitro fertilization (IVF) after that. This month we have ‘homework’ to get ready for IUI, including a hysterosalpingogram (HSG, more about that later), and a 2-hour class on how to give myself hormone shots. Add another notch to the tally of stuff-I-never-wanted-to-know.

Tomorrow I take a blood pregnancy test (spoiler alert: I’m not pregnant) and pick up a prescription for antibiotics. Both are required before they’ll do the HSG on Thursday. Will let you know how it goes!

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  1. How did they diagnose you? With FSH, AMH, AFC? Just wondering. I guess I should read on to find out. šŸ™‚

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    • Did you find them? I’ve had my day 3 bloodwork twice:
      AMH 0.17, then 0.22
      FSH 13.7, then 13.5

      And my AFC determined 4 times: 6, 3, 6, 7 (most recent)

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  2. Thanks! My AMH is 0.16. Both times. And my FSH went from 10.3 to 10.4, to 18.3, to 18.7. Yikes.

    AFC is similar to yours. 6, 6, and 6.

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