Plan D

I made a mistake in my post about progesterone… Despite the suppositories, AF showed up a few hours after my last post. So yesterday morning I snuck out during my students’ final to call the clinic right when they opened.

C and I had decided our plan was to do a baseline ultrasound on cycle day 2 or 3, and see how many antral follicles were visible – if it was 3 or fewer, we would do medicated IUI again; if there were more, we would try for IVF. But when the advice nurse called me back, she said that Dr. Y wanted me to come in on Tuesday – too late for medicated IUI.

When I explained our ‘plan’, she said that upon further reflection, Dr. Y really felt that IVF was our best option and we should just go ahead with that. At this unexpected disruption in the plan – and to my complete surprise – I burst into tears on the phone. (I should probably mention that I have never been a very emotional person. For our first year together, C teasingly referred to me as ‘The Robot’. But infertility is doing its damnedest to change that.) Anyway, the nurse ultimately relented and said they could squeeze me in at 4:30.

The ultrasound showed 6 follicles (lame by most standards, but tied for my best count). It also showed a small cyst (Dr. Y said that wasn’t surprising after coming off a medicated IUI cycle), which means we couldn’t do medicated IUI this cycle anyway. We all agreed to move ahead with IVF, assuming the cyst goes away before next month. (We need a month to do our IVF ‘homework’ anyway.)

Once again, it feels good to have a plan, and to feel like we are moving forward (to what, I don’t know, but I’ll settle for movement toward anything at this point). I would title this post ‘Plan B’, except IVF was certainly not our plan B. By my count, we are on Plan D. Here’s a summary of our plan/backup plan/backup to the backup plan, etc:

Plan A: Pull the goalie and get pregnant “the old fashioned way.”

Plan B: Timed intercourse, using charting (phase 1), charting + OPKs (phase 2), and charting + OPKs + Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor (phase 3)

Plan C: Medicated IUI with Menopur

Plan D: IVF with my (scarce, presumably crap) eggs

Plan E: IVF with donor eggs

Plan F: Adoption

Plan G: Wait for Guy on a Buffalo to drop off a prairie orphan. (If you don’t know what I’m talking about, click below.)

Plan H: No idea. Suggestions?